{"id":10083,"date":"2006-09-07T10:40:06","date_gmt":"2006-09-07T17:40:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp\/2006\/09\/07\/musings-on-emotions.html"},"modified":"2006-09-07T10:40:06","modified_gmt":"2006-09-07T17:40:06","slug":"musings_on_emot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2006\/09\/07\/musings_on_emot.html","title":{"rendered":"Musings on Emotions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I read once that the opposite of Love is not Hate, but Apathy.  Hate is, at least, engagement (negative and destructive, to be sure, but still engagement and acknowledgment).  Hatred can even possibly be turned to Love, as long as that engagement takes place.  Apathy &#8212; ignoring someone, failing to express interest in them or their plight, failing to acknowledge them as a person &#8212; is diametrically opposed to Love, though, and cuts more cruelly than even Hatred.<\/p>\n<p>As an example, on a macro scale, it&#8217;s best to say, &#8220;I feel great compassion for the people affected by the AIDS epidemic in Africa.  I want to help them.&#8221;  It&#8217;s not good to say, &#8220;Well, they brought it on themselves by their sinful lives and poor governmental choices, and, besides, they&#8217;re all <em>Africans<\/em>, you know,&#8221; but at least it&#8217;s recognizing them and having a reaction.  And it&#8217;s better than, &#8220;Oh, AIDS in Africa?  Huh.  Hey, did you catch the last episode of <em>Lost?<\/em>&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>On a somewhat related note, Anger is a dodgy thing (to frame it in a Christian sense, in its extreme it&#8217;s one of the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Seven_deadly_sins\" target=\"_blank\">Seven Deadly Sins<\/a>), but Despair is worse (in Christian tradition, again in its extreme, it is the one unforgivable sin).  And, indeed, there is in fact a relationship between these and the above &#8212; think of Anger is Hatred at the world or a situation, whereas Despair is Apathy about it, a disengagement from everything.<br \/>\nSo to that end, it&#8217;s better to rage at the world (or one&#8217;s situation in it) than to give up on it.  (I&#8217;m not sure, in that relationship, what the analog to Love would be.)<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ask &#8230; my mind&#8217;s wandering over these sorts of things of late.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I read once that the opposite of Love is not Hate, but Apathy. Hate is, at least, engagement (negative and destructive, to be sure, but still engagement and acknowledgment). 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