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I saw an Obama-Biden!&#8221; she proclaimed from the back seat as we wended through neighborhoods.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yay!&#8221; I agreed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Boo!&#8221; she said, as we passed by a house whose lawn was festooned with McCain-Palin and local race GOP banners.<\/p>\n<p>A moment to ponder.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Y&#8217;know,&#8221; I said, &#8220;I think it&#8217;s okay to cheer for my candidate. But I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s nice to boo people who support the other person.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A pause. &#8220;Okay.&#8221; Another pause. &#8220;A bunch of people at school were saying bad things about the people for president that they didn&#8217;t like.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I think for a moment. &#8220;It&#8217;s a real temptation to say that a candidate you don&#8217;t like is stupid, but I think it&#8217;s better to cheer for your candidate than to say mean things about the other candidate. It&#8217;s okay to say that you disagree with what a candidate says. 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