{"id":137226,"date":"2018-09-20T22:15:27","date_gmt":"2018-09-21T04:15:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2018\/09\/20\/divorce-lawyer-tips-on-marriage.html"},"modified":"2018-09-20T22:15:27","modified_gmt":"2018-09-21T04:15:27","slug":"divorce-lawyer-tips-on-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2018\/09\/20\/divorce-lawyer-tips-on-marriage.html","title":{"rendered":"Divorce Lawyer Tips on Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#39;s an interesting way to look at things, and some intriguing insights into what makes marriage successful based on people who have dealt with a lot of _un_successful marriages.<\/p>\n<p>That said, I don&#39;t think there&#39;s anything shocking here. Having frank discussions before getting married, differentiating between what makes a good dating partner and what makes a good spouse, and realizing that you probably aren&#39;t going to change the things you dislike in your SO by marrying them, are all things that you can find in a lot of relationship books.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#39;s good to hear them from people who regularly see demonstrations of what <i>doesn&#39;t<\/i> work.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div><iframe type='text\/html' width='100%' height='385' src='https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/eCLk-2iArYc' frameborder='0'><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><span style='font-size:small;'><a href='https:\/\/plus.google.com\/+DaveHill47\/posts\/Bn7UvBdXJKL'>Original Post<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#39;s an interesting way to look at things, and some intriguing insights into what makes marriage successful based on people who have dealt with a lot of _un_successful marriages. That said, I don&#39;t think there&#39;s anything shocking here. Having frank discussions before getting married, differentiating between what makes a good dating partner and what makes &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2018\/09\/20\/divorce-lawyer-tips-on-marriage.html\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Divorce Lawyer Tips on Marriage&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[106],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-137226","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plusposts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":51514,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/06\/19\/on-the-choosing-of-appropriate-terms-around-marriage-equality.html","url_meta":{"origin":137226,"position":0},"title":"On the choosing of appropriate terms around &quot;marriage equality&quot;","author":"***Dave","date":"Fri 19-Jun-15 10:41am","format":false,"excerpt":"It's not just a matter of so-called political correctness, but of conveying, accurately, what one means. 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