{"id":1492,"date":"2001-12-27T18:04:24","date_gmt":"2001-12-28T01:04:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp\/?p=1492"},"modified":"2014-06-16T10:51:26","modified_gmt":"2014-06-16T16:51:26","slug":"i_mean_have_you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2001\/12\/27\/i_mean_have_you.html","title":{"rendered":"I mean, have you heard the way he talks about his wife?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The title of this was a title text for a link to my blog on <a href=\"http:\/\/bazima.surreally.com\/\">Bazima<\/a>&#8216;s page.<\/p>\n<p>Hmmm.  How <i>do<\/i> I talk about my wife?<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s in my heart, she&#8217;s in my soul, she&#8217;ll be my breath when I grow old, she is my lover, she&#8217;s my best friend &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, and then some.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been friends with Margie for many, many years, far longer than we&#8217;ve been involved romantically.  And I&#8217;m really glad of that, because it&#8217;s made our romance all the richer.  <\/p>\n<p>She takes the places where I&#8217;m stronger and makes me even more so.  She takes the places where I&#8217;m weak and makes me strong.  She&#8217;s clever, she&#8217;s funny, she laughs at my jokes, she&#8217;s tolerant of my foibles and habits and esoteric interests (and brings enough of her own to the mix to keep things interesting), she&#8217;s a wonderful cook, and, frankly, she&#8217;s great in the sack.<\/p>\n<p>She enjoys enough of the things I do to be someone I can spend lots of time with, but not so much that we end up in big trouble buying a life-sized Vorlon Encounter Suit or something like that for a zillion dollars on eBay.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s an excellent hostess and a wonderful mother to our daughter.  She&#8217;s good at talking to vendors.  She&#8217;s good at reminding me of things I need to do without being a nag.  She&#8217;s good at pitching in when there&#8217;s hard work to do.  She&#8217;s an enjoyable traveling companion.  She&#8217;s an interesting conversationalist.  <\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s my confidante.  She&#8217;s the person I can be honest with, who will baby me when I need babying and give me a swift kick in the ass when I need one.<\/p>\n<p>She stretches my horizons.  She persuades me to eat food that I wouldn&#8217;t otherwise, and enjoy it, too.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s a saint.  When she&#8217;s good, she&#8217;s very, very good.  And when she&#8217;s bad, she&#8217;s better.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s wise, and sensuous, and cheerful and patient.  She&#8217;s an inspiration, and a support, and a goal to aspire to, and someone I can care for and cherish.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s my right arm.  And I hope that I can be hers, too.<\/p>\n<p>As I enter a new year, and approach our seventh wedding anniversary (this April), and the twenty-first (I believe) year I have known her, I lift my glass on high to her, and I give you all Marjorie Lucia Kleerup.  <\/p>\n<p><i>Damn, am I lucky.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The title of this was a title text for a link to my blog on Bazima&#8217;s page. Hmmm. How do I talk about my wife? 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