{"id":2130,"date":"2002-03-05T11:37:27","date_gmt":"2002-03-05T16:37:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp\/?p=2130"},"modified":"2002-03-05T11:37:27","modified_gmt":"2002-03-05T16:37:27","slug":"love_and_death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2002\/03\/05\/love_and_death.html","title":{"rendered":"Love and Death"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Julia ponders <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sfad.org\/julia\/blog\/archive\/000276.shtml#000276\">the gaming world<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"block\">So last night, Lou and I headed out of the house together. He was going grocery shopping (which we hadn&#8217;t done since coming back from Las Vegas &#8212; too much Final Fantasy X), I was going to the game. We said our goodbyes, and then he called out, &#8220;Hope you don&#8217;t die!&#8221;<br \/>\nI pondered to myself if my neighbors had heard that, and what they would think. 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