{"id":2414,"date":"2002-06-28T06:40:07","date_gmt":"2002-06-28T11:40:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp\/?p=2414"},"modified":"2002-06-28T06:40:07","modified_gmt":"2002-06-28T11:40:07","slug":"fortunately_we","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2002\/06\/28\/fortunately_we.html","title":{"rendered":"Fortunately we don&#8217;t have a day named Jackson"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s the <a href=\"http:\/\/smattering.org\/archives\/00000622.php\">Friday Five<\/a> &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>When was the last time you&#8230;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>1. &#8230;sent a handwritten letter? <\/b><\/p>\n<p>After we visited with Tracy last Christmas, she told us about her mom&#8217;s cancer.  Tracy does not seem to have a huge support network, and she was providing a lot of support herself to her mom. <\/p>\n<p>So I wanted to be supportive.  Heaven knows there have been times in my life when getting a word or two, unexpected, from a friend, was (or would have been) an incredible pick-me-up.<\/p>\n<p>I am not a phone person.  I would rather let all my friends drift off in a burning oil tanker than rely on using the phone to keep in touch with them.  My bad, but there you go.<\/p>\n<p>E-mail?  Tracy is a few years behind the curve on the e-mail thing, where &#8220;few&#8221; equals &#8220;twenty.&#8221; If I send an e-mail to her, she might not see it for weeks, if not longer.<\/p>\n<p>So that&#8217;s left Real Mail.  I&#8217;ve been sending her post cards, pretty much every two weeks.  Doesn&#8217;t take a lot of writing, but I knwo it&#8217;s the thought that counts.  Really.<\/p>\n<p>I am, without a doubt, the world&#8217;s worst correspondant.  Send me something, I&#8217;ll probably reply &#8212; so long as it&#8217;s within 48 hours.  Wait for me to send you something, and you might see whether you win the Lottery first.<\/p>\n<p>That I have managed to keep this up for several months is as amazing as if I had been actually calling her.  Really.<\/p>\n<p><b>2. &#8230;baked something from scratch or made something by hand?<\/b> <\/p>\n<p>Since I am married to the avatar of whomever the Muse of Cooking is, I don&#8217;t get into the kitchen much, except in a back-up role.  <\/p>\n<p>That usually suits me fine, being a lazy cuss, but it&#8217;s also fun to make something and have people ooh and aah over it.  Give me a recipe and I&#8217;m all over it.  I make some very nice desserts, probably last time being about three or four months ago.  I am on tap to whip up a batch of chicken biryani this week, too.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. &#8230;camped in a tent?<\/b> <\/p>\n<p>Um &#8230; last weekend?<\/p>\n<p><b>4. &#8230;volunteered your time to church, school, or community?<\/b> <\/p>\n<p>I actually volunteer a fair amount for our church. Not as much as that nagging shoulder-mounted angel with the pitchfork (yeah, go figure) keeps telling me I should, but I do.<\/p>\n<p>\n<b>5. &#8230;helped a stranger?<\/b> <\/p>\n<p>Hmmmm.  I&#8217;m usually pretty open to helping strangers, especially with giving directions.  I evidently have a big sign on me somewhere, in several different languages, indicating that I Know Where I Am, Where I&#8217;m Going, and How You Can Know Where You&#8217;re Going, Too, since I seem to be frequently asked just that thing.<\/p>\n<p>Got it.  We were looking at vacuum cleaners at CostCo.  Another couple was, too.  I offered them my copy of Consumer Reports.  They accepted, but disagreed with the review and bought what they wanted to anyway.  <\/p>\n<p>Interestingly enough, another guy who was walking by us a few minutes later offered us advice on vacuums, too.<\/p>\n<p>Still haven&#8217;t bought one, though.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s the Friday Five &#8230; When was the last time you&#8230; 1. &#8230;sent a handwritten letter? 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