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According to a new study, men and women perceive romantic breakups differently<\/a>. Women see the whole thing as traumatic regardless of whether she’s dumping him or he’s dumping her. For men, being the dumper is relatively straightforward, but being the dumpee seems to come out of the blue, no doubt due to her <\/i>scheming about it for some time.<\/p>\n

(Via Blather<\/a>)<\/small><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

According to a new study, men and women perceive romantic breakups differently. Women see the whole thing as traumatic regardless of whether she’s dumping him or he’s dumping her. 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