{"id":25694,"date":"2012-01-24T13:08:04","date_gmt":"2012-01-24T20:08:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/01\/24\/the-validation-society.html"},"modified":"2012-01-25T18:46:11","modified_gmt":"2012-01-26T01:46:11","slug":"the-validation-society","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/01\/24\/the-validation-society.html","title":{"rendered":"The Validation Society"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As people have been saying since the dawn of the blog &#8212; a lot of it&#39;s about ego.  <\/p>\n<p><i>&quot;You can argue that you post on Facebook to keep your family up-to-date about your life. You can argue that you tweet to build up your personal brand. But in the end, you\u2019re just like every other person on a planet: you love it when people start sharing one of your blog posts like mad, and you\u2019re disappointed when nobody comments on that witty thing you just posted to your friends.&quot;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Yup.  Indeed, some of my best bon mots have gone past with nary a comment, and it&#39;s frustrating as hell.  And, yes, it does give me a frisson of pleasure when someone shares, links to, (re)tweets, etc. something I&#39;ve put out there.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, is that very different from what we bond together in societies about?  &quot;Esteem&quot; is the penultimate layer of Maslow&#39;s hierarchy of needs.  Yeah, we huddle together in the cave to share warmth and food and all that, but we also crave people pointing to a particularly well-chipped flint or nicely daubed wall painting, or to tell the tale of our great hunt around the fire.<\/p>\n<p>It&#39;s just a lot easier these days to get a +1 or a Like. And as long as we remember there&#39;s another capstone layer of that hierarchy of needs, we should be okay.  #ddtb  <\/p>\n<p>It does remind me a bit of Cory Doctorow&#39;s &quot;whuffie&quot; currency (<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Whuffie\" class=\"ot-anchor\">http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Whuffie<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Reshared post from +<a href='https:\/\/plus.google.com\/117691391504351341685'>Ben Parr<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Do you agree or disagree with me? Has social media turned us into a Validation Society?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style='clear:both;'>\n<p style='margin-bottom:5px;'><strong>Embedded Link<\/strong><\/p>\n<div style='height:120px;width:120px;overflow:hidden;float:left;margin-top:0px;padding-top:0px;margin-right:10px;vertical-align:top;text-align:center;clear:both;'>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img style='max-width:none;' src='http:\/\/images0-focus-opensocial.googleusercontent.com\/gadgets\/proxy?container=focus&#038;gadget=a&#038;resize_h=100&#038;url=http%3A%2F%2Fbenparr.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2012%2F01%2Fme-all-me.jpg' border='0' \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href='http:\/\/bit.ly\/y6c6tZ'>Likes, Retweets, Comments &amp; the Rise of the Validation Society<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tNot too long ago, my co-founder and I were deep in investor prep and product design (announcements coming soon) when we started talking about the\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p style='clear:both;'>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As people have been saying since the dawn of the blog &#8212; a lot of it&#39;s about ego. &quot;You can argue that you post on Facebook to keep your family up-to-date about your life. You can argue that you tweet to build up your personal brand. But in the end, you\u2019re just like every other &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/01\/24\/the-validation-society.html\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Validation Society&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[106,3,4],"tags":[107],"class_list":["post-25694","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plusposts","category-blogging","category-personal","tag-ddtb"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":133962,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2017\/07\/26\/the-trump-justice-dept-argues-the-civil-rights-act-doesnt-cover-homosexuals.html","url_meta":{"origin":25694,"position":0},"title":"The Trump Justice Dept. argues the Civil Rights Act doesn&#039;t cover &quot;homosexuals&quot;","author":"***Dave","date":"Wed 26-Jul-17 11:14pm","format":false,"excerpt":"Because as long as you're throwing transgender people under the bus, why not argue that there is no legal protection for sexual orientation?One of the legal developments over the last several years (i.e., under the Obama Administration) was the argument that discrimination based on sexual orientation was a form of\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;~PlusPosts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"~PlusPosts","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/category\/blogging\/plusposts"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":132626,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2017\/01\/24\/trumps-alt-truth-on-the-federal-workforce.html","url_meta":{"origin":25694,"position":1},"title":"Trump&#039;s Alt-Truth on the Federal Workforce","author":"***Dave","date":"Tue 24-Jan-17 10:04am","format":false,"excerpt":"Not surprisingly, Trump -- in freezing hiring of federal workers -- is relying on, um, apparently made-up understandings of the federal workforce growth. 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