{"id":27026,"date":"2012-03-10T11:13:46","date_gmt":"2012-03-10T18:13:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/03\/10\/is-a-grammar-mistake-that-everyone-makes-actually-a-mistake.html"},"modified":"2012-03-10T11:13:46","modified_gmt":"2012-03-10T18:13:46","slug":"is-a-grammar-mistake-that-everyone-makes-actually-a-mistake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/03\/10\/is-a-grammar-mistake-that-everyone-makes-actually-a-mistake.html","title":{"rendered":"Is a grammar mistake that everyone makes actually a mistake?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, don&#39;t get me wrong &#8212; I&#39;m as rules-based and anal as any Lawful Good snot could be about things like grammar.  I offer up grammar suggestions to a variety of people, often unsolicited, and it&#39;s only a sign that otherwise I&#39;m generally a nice guy (and that my suggestions are both helpful and correct) that has kept me from getting poked in the snoot more often.  Indeed, the irony is that people now <i>send<\/i> me stuff for a grammar check before sending it out to a large or important group.<\/p>\n<p>Be that as it may, while all of the attached are accurate, and show English&#39;s complex but useful utility to express a wide variety of ideas and concepts and actions and relations with a tweak of a word here or there &#8230; I also remember that Grammar Is Not a Universal Law of Physics.  Grammar, and word meanings, change over time.  The &quot;rules&quot; are both prescriptive (telling you want you should do) but also more and more descriptive (telling you what others do).  <\/p>\n<p>Such tension keeps our communication comprehensible, but it also leads to folks getting lambasted for poor grammar when they are communicating perfectly clearly. <\/p>\n<p>In some ways, the slow shift from prescriptive to descriptive grammar is, within bounds, a <i>good<\/i> thing, because it signals a moving away from Grammar Authority as more and more people communicate and set the rules on a consensus basis, based on what works, not on what some school in England dictates is The Truth.<\/p>\n<p>So it would not surprise me to see a lot of these &quot;mistakes&quot; stop being treated as such in 20-30 years, except as humorous counter-examples of stuffy grammar types.  On the other hand, I&#39;m sure others will arise by then.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, be aware that it&#39;s often okay to break some of these rules &#8212; but, like breaking the &quot;rules&quot; of what to wear to the office, or what subjects are appropriate at a dinner party, breaking them too often or in the wrong way or at an inopportune time may damage not just how you communicate, but how you&#39;re perceived. <\/p>\n<p>The &quot;mistakes&quot; are worth reading because while it may be okay in some places to break them, it&#39;s better to know the rules so you can break them intelligently &#8230; and so that you understand what subtleties of meaning are conveyed when you use them correctly.   #ddtb<\/p>\n<p style='clear:both;'>\n<p style='margin-bottom:5px;'><strong>Embedded Link<\/strong><\/p>\n<div style='height:120px;width:120px;overflow:hidden;float:left;margin-top:0px;padding-top:0px;margin-right:10px;vertical-align:top;text-align:center;clear:both;'>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img style='max-width:none;' src='http:\/\/images0-focus-opensocial.googleusercontent.com\/gadgets\/proxy?container=focus&#038;gadget=a&#038;resize_h=100&#038;url=http%3A%2F%2Flitreactor.com%2Fsites%2Fdefault%2Ffiles%2Fimagecache%2Fheader%2Fimages%2Fcolumn%2Fheaders%2Fmisatke.jpg' border='0' \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href='http:\/\/litreactor.com\/columns\/20-common-grammar-mistakes-that-almost-everyone-gets-wrong'>20 Common Grammar Mistakes That (Almost) Everyone Makes | LitReactor<\/a><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tI&#39;ve edited a monthly magazine for more than six years, and it&#39;s a job that&#39;s come with more frustration than reward. If there&#39;s one thing I am grateful for \u2014 and it sure isn&#39;t the&#8230;\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p style='clear:both;'>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, don&#39;t get me wrong &#8212; I&#39;m as rules-based and anal as any Lawful Good snot could be about things like grammar. I offer up grammar suggestions to a variety of people, often unsolicited, and it&#39;s only a sign that otherwise I&#39;m generally a nice guy (and that my suggestions are both helpful and correct) &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/03\/10\/is-a-grammar-mistake-that-everyone-makes-actually-a-mistake.html\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Is a grammar mistake that everyone makes actually a mistake?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[106],"tags":[107],"class_list":["post-27026","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plusposts","tag-ddtb"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":30863,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/10\/25\/20-common-grammar-mistakes-some-of-which-arent.html","url_meta":{"origin":27026,"position":0},"title":"20 Common Grammar Mistakes (some of which aren&#39;t)","author":"***Dave","date":"Thu 25-Oct-12 9:06am","format":false,"excerpt":"Some of these are grammar mistakes (or clarifications). 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