{"id":43688,"date":"2014-07-19T23:38:23","date_gmt":"2014-07-20T05:38:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2014\/07\/19\/dealing-with-the-dearly-departed.html"},"modified":"2014-07-22T14:11:30","modified_gmt":"2014-07-22T20:11:30","slug":"dealing-with-the-dearly-departed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2014\/07\/19\/dealing-with-the-dearly-departed.html","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with the Dearly Departed"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"gpb-content\">My good friend Mary ended up helping her new husband Stan deal with the estate of Stan&#39;s mom after her passing &#8212; and, being that sort of person, distilled what she learned into some convenient checklists and bullet points (yay liberal arts education!). \u00a0I passed on an early version of this list to my own mom when my dad died earlier this year, and it was a great help.\ufeff<\/div>\n<p class='gpb-article' style='clear:both;'>\n<p style='margin-bottom:5px;'><strong>Embedded Link<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>                                                <a href='http:\/\/www.chez-oswell.org\/blog\/2014\/07\/death-101-a-checklist'>Death 101 \u2013 A Checklist \u2014 Chez Oswell<\/a><br \/>\n                                                So, after my last post, one of my friends asked for a checklist. I got such a list from the lawyer after Jo Ann died, but I found it incomplete and poorly written. So after looking around, stealing some verbiage [\u2026]\n                                            <\/p>\n<p class='gpb-links' style='clear:both;'> <a class='gpb-linkback' href='https:\/\/plus.google.com\/101083456815352083930\/posts\/P6i9uk1Jr22' target='_new'>View this post on Google+<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My good friend Mary ended up helping her new husband Stan deal with the estate of Stan&#39;s mom after her passing &#8212; and, being that sort of person, distilled what she learned into some convenient checklists and bullet points (yay liberal arts education!). \u00a0I passed on an early version of this list to my own &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2014\/07\/19\/dealing-with-the-dearly-departed.html\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dealing with the Dearly Departed&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[106,69,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plusposts","category-family","category-politics-law"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":49897,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/03\/21\/first-graders-and-their-parents-of-1979.html","url_meta":{"origin":43688,"position":0},"title":"First Graders (and their parents) of 1979","author":"***Dave","date":"Sat 21-Mar-15 10:13am","format":false,"excerpt":"The academic expectations are higher now, but the \"free range\" expectations were much higher then.I went back and forth to school in 1st Grade (which would have been ... 1967, in fact). 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