{"id":4469,"date":"2003-08-26T12:18:36","date_gmt":"2003-08-26T19:18:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp\/?p=4469"},"modified":"2003-08-26T12:18:36","modified_gmt":"2003-08-26T19:18:36","slug":"pickup_line","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2003\/08\/26\/pickup_line.html","title":{"rendered":"Pickup Line"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"\/blog\/images\/fdos_2003.html\" onclick=\"window.open('\/blog\/images\/fdos_2003.html','popup','width=459,height=630,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/blog\/images\/fdos_2003-thumb.jpg\" width=\"109\" height=\"150\" border=\"0\" class=\"right\" alt=\"The Official First Day of School Picture 2003\" \/><\/a>I got to the school to pick up Katherine.  There were already a few parents lurking around outside &#8212; evidently it had been something of a madhouse in the morning, but now it was fairly calm and quiet.<\/p>\n<p>The Preschool class was out on the playground, playing, and I got to watch Katherine digging with a shovel in the gravel.  I immediately went in to Parental Uberanalysis Mode, watching how she interacted with the other kids, what she played with, what she did &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line, she was having fun.  <\/p>\n<p>I chatted a bit with one of her teachers, and with the other parents.  It was kind of weird &#8212; a bunch of strangers, but all with something in common: their kids in the class.  It was kind of nice.<\/p>\n<p>I was also the only dad there.<\/p>\n<p>As the kids queued up at a rope to go back inside, some of them spotted their parents.  &#8220;Mommy!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I was only a dozen feet away from Katherine, but she didn&#8217;t see me at first.  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