{"id":49358,"date":"2015-01-25T23:22:26","date_gmt":"2015-01-26T06:22:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/01\/25\/marriage-license-shenanigans-in-oklahoma.html"},"modified":"2015-01-25T23:22:26","modified_gmt":"2015-01-26T06:22:26","slug":"marriage-license-shenanigans-in-oklahoma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/01\/25\/marriage-license-shenanigans-in-oklahoma.html","title":{"rendered":"Marriage license shenanigans in Oklahoma"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#39;s been suggested that one possible (and appropriate) outcome of the controversy over marriage equality would be to get the state out of the business of marriage. Let the state recognize some sort of licensed civil union, and let folk who want a religious state of &quot;Holy Matrimony&quot; arrange that with their individual churches. The state ends up dealing with just the contractual rights\/responsibilities of folk getting hitched, and all of the &quot;God intended marriage to look like <i>this.&quot;<\/i> stuff gets punted back to the churches making said claims.<\/p>\n<p>An Oklahoma state law under consideration manages to take that idea and flip around the result. Under it, the state (or, rather, county justices of the peace) could no longer marry people. If you want to get married, as recognized by state law, you would need to do so in a recognized church.<\/p>\n<p>On the plus side, that would allow denominations and churches that sacramentally accept same-sex marriage to do their thing, and those that don&#39;t to do their own thing, too. On the negative side, it would have religious institutions dictating who gets to be considered married, with all the benefits (and responsibilities) the state imposes following from those religious actions.<\/p>\n<p>Those who didn&#39;t want a church wedding could file an affidavit of common law marriage &#8212; except, apparently, Oklahoma doesn&#39;t by default recognize common law marriage, unless a judge rules to so accept it. That both puts non-religious individuals at a legal disadvantage, and puts judges in the position of deciding which non-religious marriages to recognize, which seems highly problematic.<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line, there&#39;s at least a couple of very significant church-state entanglements involved in this proposal, though no doubt it&#39;s garnering some nice support for the legislator who proposed it. It would almost certainly never pass muster, but it&#39;s another example of the lengths to which some folk will go to turn back the social\/legal tide.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"sm2wp\"><p>\n<a style='display:inline;' href='http:\/\/www.kswo.com\/story\/27918885\/proposed-bill-would-end-marriage-licenses'><br \/>\n<img src='https:\/\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/proxy\/WnYUTb4OtP6OGA3Ndjz-E5eCQ5OWF5iuHduAGegetYMmm_o3vhSVRGsCzpnJKi13CfzCFV4kmPn5jHmz1vwzXzL8TnY=w506-h303-p' border='0' style='max-width:650px;'\/><br \/>\n<\/a><br \/>\n<span style='font-size:large;'><a href='http:\/\/www.kswo.com\/story\/27918885\/proposed-bill-would-end-marriage-licenses'>Proposed bill would end marriage licenses<\/a><\/span><br \/>\nA new bill being discussed in the State House of Representatives could mean the end of marriage licenses in the state.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style='font-size:small;'><a href='https:\/\/plus.google.com\/101083456815352083930\/posts\/TbTNfvkRJet'>View on Google+<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#39;s been suggested that one possible (and appropriate) outcome of the controversy over marriage equality would be to get the state out of the business of marriage. Let the state recognize some sort of licensed civil union, and let folk who want a religious state of &quot;Holy Matrimony&quot; arrange that with their individual churches. The &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/01\/25\/marriage-license-shenanigans-in-oklahoma.html\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Marriage license shenanigans in Oklahoma&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[106],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-49358","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plusposts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5631,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2004\/02\/06\/separate_but_eq.html","url_meta":{"origin":49358,"position":0},"title":"Separate but equal?","author":"***Dave","date":"Fri 6-Feb-04 9:52am","format":false,"excerpt":"Thanks to Les for reminding me about the Massachussetts Supremes' ruling on gay marriage. 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