{"id":51376,"date":"2015-06-05T17:54:37","date_gmt":"2015-06-05T17:54:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/06\/05\/on-the-need-for-empathy.html"},"modified":"2015-06-05T17:54:37","modified_gmt":"2015-06-05T17:54:37","slug":"on-the-need-for-empathy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/06\/05\/on-the-need-for-empathy.html","title":{"rendered":"On the need for empathy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Amanda Palmer talks about the value, the <i>need,<\/i> for radical empathy, of trying to understand, even when you don&#39;t condone; to have compassion for the person, even while disagreeing or condemning their actions.<\/p>\n<p>It&#39;s what that phrase &quot;hate the sin, love the sinner&quot; really means, even though it&#39;s rarely practiced by so many of the folk who actually use that phrase.<\/p>\n<p>Because where do you draw the line? If you can&#39;t bring yourself to wonder, to consider, how Hitler felt, or how he came to be the person he was and do the awful things he did &#8230; then where&#39;s the point short of him where you can? Who&#39;s not <i>quite<\/i> bad enough to empathize with? Whose sins, misdeeds, unpleasant and disagreed-with actions is it okay to put up with in trying to understand them, to consider their perspective, to examine for echoes of your own feelings?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote class=\"sm2wp\"><p>\n<a style='display:inline;' href='http:\/\/www.newstatesman.com\/2015\/05\/playing-hitler-card'><br \/>\n<img src='https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/proxy\/wH44rPNQgT3pB5S0GsUoO4yb6W3skQ_lBTxHGRF2z3galuZLRn_uDnQyLqxFi5xfEAWnKWwjBAnwQ9NAyqwnNw3nUD56ceubv3L3eVqsv9DZ7vUkj6BxqJ09vf4EitLJ3L32Q-kGRw=w506-h303-p' border='0' style='max-width:650px;'\/><br \/>\n<\/a><br \/>\n<span style='font-size:large;'><a href='http:\/\/www.newstatesman.com\/2015\/05\/playing-hitler-card'>Amanda Palmer: Playing the Hitler Card<\/a><\/span><br \/>\nWe live in an age of endless, foaming outrage. The only answer is to try to feel empathy for other people, no matter who they are.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style='font-size:small;'><a href='https:\/\/plus.google.com\/+DaveHill47\/posts\/2H9vZDUmMi5'>View on Google+<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Amanda Palmer talks about the value, the need, for radical empathy, of trying to understand, even when you don&#39;t condone; to have compassion for the person, even while disagreeing or condemning their actions. It&#39;s what that phrase &quot;hate the sin, love the sinner&quot; really means, even though it&#39;s rarely practiced by so many of the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2015\/06\/05\/on-the-need-for-empathy.html\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;On the need for empathy&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[106],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51376","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plusposts"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":30150,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/09\/08\/oh-there-you-go-with-that-empathy-malarky-again.html","url_meta":{"origin":51376,"position":0},"title":"Oh, there you go with that &quot;empathy&quot; malarky again","author":"***Dave","date":"Sat 8-Sep-12 1:30pm","format":false,"excerpt":"Because, after all, why should a (male) politician crusading to make abortion illegal even bother considering why a woman would want one in the first place? \u00a0I mean, that gets into all that \"empathy\" and \"sympathy\" and \"root causes\" and \"blame someone else\" kind of claptrap that only muddies the\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;~PlusPosts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"~PlusPosts","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/category\/blogging\/plusposts"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":130649,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2016\/05\/13\/kill-your-headache-and-your-empathy.html","url_meta":{"origin":51376,"position":1},"title":"Kill your headache &#8230; and your empathy","author":"***Dave","date":"Fri 13-May-16 12:29am","format":false,"excerpt":"That's overstating things (on both counts), but this the study in this story is a bit ... disturbing. It appears that taking acetominophen (Tylenol) actually reduces empathy for pain others may be feeling. That's not a good thing. This popular painkiller also kills kindness Acetaminophen, the most common drug ingredient\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;~PlusPosts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"~PlusPosts","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/category\/blogging\/plusposts"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":38591,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2013\/08\/29\/the-syria-decision.html","url_meta":{"origin":51376,"position":2},"title":"The Syria Decision","author":"***Dave","date":"Thu 29-Aug-13 11:24am","format":false,"excerpt":"I have no idea -- and while it's easy to suggest that \"smart\" people find a third solution, that doesn't mean a reasonable (or less harmful) alternative actually exists. \u00a0And while it's easy to say that before we go to war we should consider what our actions are saying, the\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;~PlusPosts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"~PlusPosts","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/category\/blogging\/plusposts"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":31526,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2012\/11\/28\/airports-the-tsa-and-apologetics.html","url_meta":{"origin":51376,"position":3},"title":"Airports, the TSA, and Apologetics","author":"***Dave","date":"Wed 28-Nov-12 1:47am","format":false,"excerpt":"The one thing I'll say struck me as true from Baker's essay was that a big part of wide-spread opposition to TSA activities is not the activities themselves, but the attitudes of the agents involved. \u00a0I'll say that the Denver TSA folks tend to be professional, even (when pressed) compassionate.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;~PlusPosts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"~PlusPosts","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/category\/blogging\/plusposts"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":136805,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2018\/06\/18\/were-separating-children-and-parents-with-no-idea-of-how-to-reunite-them.html","url_meta":{"origin":51376,"position":4},"title":"We&#039;re separating children and parents &#8212; with no idea of how to reunite them","author":"***Dave","date":"Mon 18-Jun-18 7:52pm","format":false,"excerpt":"And, it seems, little intent to do so. Kid and parents aren't being tracked together except during initial handling by CBP -- as they move forward, their cases are being handled by very different agencies, which don't seem to be following such tracking ... such that there are documented cases\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;~PlusPosts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"~PlusPosts","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/category\/blogging\/plusposts"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":24398,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2011\/12\/09\/rats-2.html","url_meta":{"origin":51376,"position":5},"title":"Rats!","author":"***Dave","date":"Fri 9-Dec-11 6:49pm","format":false,"excerpt":"Are pretty cool! #ddtbReshared post from +The Bruce, Mile HighYou dirty rat ... can you spare a dime? Or maybe a chocolate chip?I find this fascinating. Empathy seems to be showing up in a lot more species while our own seems to have leaders who either lack it completely or\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;~PlusPosts&quot;","block_context":{"text":"~PlusPosts","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/category\/blogging\/plusposts"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51376","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=51376"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51376\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=51376"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=51376"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=51376"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}