{"id":5778,"date":"2004-07-20T08:06:24","date_gmt":"2004-07-20T15:06:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/wp\/2004\/07\/20\/nicest-thing-anyones-said-about-me-today.html"},"modified":"2004-07-20T08:06:24","modified_gmt":"2004-07-20T15:06:24","slug":"nicest_thing_an","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2004\/07\/20\/nicest_thing_an.html","title":{"rendered":"Nicest thing anyone&#8217;s said about me today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"block\">If one were to go <a href=\"http:\/\/stupidevilbastard.com\/index\/seb\/comments\/more_email_discussions_with_a_christian_one_i_think_we_would_do_well_to_hav\/\" target=\"_blank\">solely on what I\u2019ve posted to SEB<\/a> it would be understandable if you thought I didn\u2019t feel there were any believers out there worth talking to outside of ***Dave and JethricOne &#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>While always willing to talk about relgion, either in general or mine in particular, the funny thing here is that I don&#8217;t define myself as &#8220;a believer.&#8221;  I don&#8217;t wear a big &#8220;I&#8217;m a believer&#8221; badge on my lapel, I don&#8217;t flag down people to tell them how to be &#8220;saved&#8221; (hell, I&#8217;m still figuring that one out, so how would I have the audacity to chart someone else&#8217;s path?), and I don&#8217;t approach every conversation from that, or any other, ideological starting point.  While my personal faith is very important to me, it&#8217;s not me <em>per se<\/em>, any more than my hobbies or family or residency or hair color.  Some might consider that to be not a good Christian, but I think God made me to be more than a sentient prayer wheel (or, rather, God&#8217;s intent was for my life to be prayer, not prayer to be my life).  <\/p>\n<p>So I don&#8217;t approach things all the time as a &#8220;believer.&#8221;  And, perhaps, that&#8217;s what makes me &#8220;worth talking to&#8221; (if I can fit those words past my blush), since I find that ideologues &#8212; whether I agree with their ideologies or not &#8212; tend to be dull conversationalists.  To paraphrase Maslow, <em>when the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to pound your points in too hard.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Indeed, to toss the compliment back, one thing that makes <a href=\"http:\/\/stupidevilbastard.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">SEB <\/a>and Les so readable himself is that it&#8217;s not all or fundamentally about &#8212; let alone starting-every-sentence with &#8212; being a <em>non<\/em>-believer.  If it were, it would probably be pretty dull, and it&#8217;s usually anything but.<\/p>\n<p>Which is not to say that blogs (for example) on a certain theme can&#8217;t be informative or interesting or enjoyable.  But the best tend to focus either on information (which is then either interesting or not in its own right) or about being a person (in which case the theme is coloring, not substance).  Blogs that want to <em>Teach You the Truth, Dammit, No Matter How Many Posts It Takes <\/em>don&#8217;t stick around for long in my own blogroll.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easy to get along with, and find (and enjoy) common ground with, a person.  It&#8217;s a lot more difficult to do so with an ideology or an ideologue.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If one were to go solely on what I\u2019ve posted to SEB it would be understandable if you thought I didn\u2019t feel there were any believers out there worth talking&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5778","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogging","category-religion"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":3670,"url":"https:\/\/hill-kleerup.org\/blog\/2002\/10\/09\/free_mickey.html","url_meta":{"origin":5778,"position":0},"title":"Free Mickey!","author":"***Dave","date":"Wed 9-Oct-02 1:08pm","format":false,"excerpt":"I am a believer in free enterprise. 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