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All Saints

Margie and I were married at All Saints Episcopal in Pasadena, California. It was not either of our “parish” churches — I was new to being an Episcopalian (and living…

Margie and I were married at All Saints Episcopal in Pasadena, California. It was not either of our “parish” churches — I was new to being an Episcopalian (and living in Colorado), and for Margie it was a matter of various convenience factors. 

All Saints is a large and lovely church, and its congregation is noted as progressive and liberal. For example, they have an open communion rail (not only do you not need to be baptized in the Episcopal Church to receive Communion, you don’t have to be Christian, which meant we could share bread and wine with all of our wedding guests who wanted it). And over the past few years they were involved in (and exonerated from) a big IRS brouhaha over whether they had violated their tax-exempt status by talking about politics.

Now they’re making a splash again: Church to begin same-sex nuptials – Pasadena Star-News 

All Saints Church in Pasadena, one of the largest and most liberal Episcopalian congregations in the country, announced Thursday it will begin performing wedding ceremonies for gay couples starting June 16. In what All Saints Rector the Rev. Ed Bacon called a “historic vote,” church officials adopted the “Resolution on Marriage Equality” unanimously Thursday, after a special meeting of the 3,500-member congregation’s lay leadership.

The church’s action came in response to the California Supreme Court’s May 15 ruling overturning the ban on gay marriage approved by voters in 2000. All Saints has performed blessings for same-sex couples for the past 15 years.

But Bacon described the church vestry’s vote as showing “stirring courage to move beyond lip service” to the church’s commitment to equality by extending marriage rights to gay members. “Today’s decision is consistent with All Saints Church, Pasadena’s identity as a peace and justice church,” Bacon said in a statement Thursday. “It also aligns us with the Scriptures’ mandate to make God’s love tangible by `doing justice and loving mercy’ (Micah 6:8) and with the canons of our Episcopal Church that forbid discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.”

 

As someone who was married before that same altar, I will state categorically that I do not feel that my own marriage is at all threatened, cheapened, or changed by the decision — except that it means that more loving, mature couples will be able to pledge their commitment to each other before God at the same place, which can only be (to my mind) a good thing.

The Vestry resolution is here.

I approve. And expect this to further fan lots of flames.

(via Father Jake)

Ecumenism

So when ever I talk about the Episcopal Church, it seems like I’m dwelling on the divisions within it from controversies over gays and women and whatever. And that raises…

So when ever I talk about the Episcopal Church, it seems like I’m dwelling on the divisions within it from controversies over gays and women and whatever. And that raises the bigger issue of divisions between various Christian sects/denominations. While there may be some cynically pragmatic reasons why it’s maybe just as well that Christian unity is more of a distant goal and slogan than a reality, it is one of the directives that Christians — as informed by Jesus in the Bible — ought to be striving for.

Our rector now posts his sermons on a blog at our church, and a couple of weeks ago he included this quote:

The great labor of ecumenism has barely managed to dent the walls of separation that keep the divided Christian denominations from a genuinely common life… Protestant and Catholic, East and West, Christians remain divided –- and seem by and large content with their separation.

I started writing a response to the blog/sermon, but it got long enough in thought that I decided to post it here instead.

Why is it, in the face of calls by their founder to be “one” that Christians seem to be divided into so many sects and denominations and groups and subgroups. It’s such a recognized phenomenon that it’s made its way into the (ostensibly) world’s funniest religious joke:

I was walking across a bridge one day, and I saw a man standing on the edge, about to jump. I ran over and said: “Stop. Don’t do it.”

“Why shouldn’t I?” he asked.

“Well, there’s so much to live for!”

“Like what?”

“Are you religious?”

He said: “Yes.”

I said: “Me too. Are you Christian or Buddhist?”

“Christian.”

“Me too. Are you Catholic or Protestant?”

“Protestant.”

“Me too. Are you Episcopalian or Baptist?”

“Baptist.”

“Wow. Me too. Are you Baptist Church of God or Baptist Church of the Lord?”

“Baptist Church of God.”

“Me too. Are you original Baptist Church of God, or are you Reformed Baptist Church of God?”

“Reformed Baptist Church of God.”

“Me too. Are you Reformed Baptist Church of God, Reformation of 1879, or Reformed Baptist Church of God, Reformation of 1915?”

He said: “Reformed Baptist Church of God, Reformation of 1915.”

I said: “Die, heretic scum,” and pushed him off.

(Alternate versions here, here, here, and elsewhere around the Net.)

Part of it is, I think, tribalism. We like to herd together with birds of a feather. Even within a given parish (take my own), you end up with folks banding together by service time, by participation in different groups, by the choir folks vs the “contemporary music” people, by the women vs the men, etc.

But that’s only a part of it. When you look at the rhetoric that gets thrown about disagreeing between Christian groups — heck, just the things that are said (on both sides, though I have my preference) in the current Episcopal divisions — it’s not just herding, but downright hostility, even hatred. Which, for folks who’ve been told in no uncertain terms, to love one another, is pretty (as they used to say in the old days) scandalous.

It seems to me, watching these sorts of contentions, is that a lot of people aren’t interested in being One, they’re interested in being Right. Or, more importantly, in being the Winners, the ones whose beliefs are proven and vindicated by other folks agreeing with (or giving in to) them. They may want unity, but it’s a unity on their terms, by their rules. They want to win the debate, to be acknowledged as right in every jot and tittle of theological controversy, rather than in working together to further what they’re supposed to be doing in God’s name — feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, etc. They are more interested in asserting what the “Good News” is (“Now pay special attention under section three, paragraph twelve, clause 47/a, where it clearly states that …”) than in sharing it.

It’s a matter of pride, in other words. And, yeah, I can be that way sometimes, too. Though I try to hold it in check.

Too, I think ecumenism and a “common life” is misperceived. Too much emphasis is given on coming up with a fully agreed-upon theology and formal; recognition of each others’ flavors of priesthood and hierarchy and so forth. Too much emphasis is placed on uniformity vs unity. Arguments over ordaining women, or married priests, or bishops vs presbyters vs congregational control, which flavor of creed to adhere to or whether the eucharist is symbolic, transubstantiational, or consubstantiational, all miss the point; trying to settle them is like trying to convince everyone in a big crowd what restaurant go to — and what to order there. The goal in the latter is not that everyone eat mushu pork, but that everyone go out for a good time. 

From my way of thinking (and, yes, I’m cognizant that I’m dancing around a bit of hypocrisy here, but bear with me), God didn’t make everyone the same, so why do we have to come up with a laundry list of identical and identically interpreted rules in order to work and live together? Wasn’t over-adherence to rules something that Christ himself is recorded as condemning? I’m willing to live with a little ambiguity, mystery, and disagreement over the specifics of God’s will — because I think the general guidelines are pretty clear. “In essentials unity, in non-essentials freedom, in all things love.” I’m less interested in folks’ theology than in what they do with it.

Or, looked at another way, I can be good neighbors, coworkers, even friends, with people with whom I disagree in one or more particulars (religious, political, recreational, aesthetic, etc.). Heck, Margie and I don’t agree on everything, but we seem to get along together pretty well. 

The “non-essentials” aren’t unimportant — but they aren’t (by definition) essential to be in agreement about. The trick, of course, is that what is “essential.” My own opinion is that the “essentials” in Christianity need to boil down to the actual dictates by Christ as to what the most important commandments are, to wit, loving God and loving our neighbors. Most of the creedal and theological differences between Christian denominations — let alone the organizational and ritual differences —  have only tangential importance to those commandments. 

But, of course, they aren’t something you can win at, play power games with, easily condemn people for, or otherwise use as a club for being holier-than-Them. Perhaps that’s why they have such a hard time catching on.

But until they do, or until people act more on them than in hurling vitriol over which direction to cross themselves, or what sort of paraphernalia to have up on the altar, or what version of the song book is being used, or who’s married to whom — it seems unlikely we’ll ever have much in the way of unity within Christianity.

Colorado Springs Episcopal Brouhaha Update

Some news, finally, from the big Grace & St Stephens / Rev Don Armstrong / Episcopal Church property donnybrook. An El Paso County District Court judge ruled today that the…

Some news, finally, from the big Grace & St Stephens / Rev Don Armstrong / Episcopal Church property donnybrook.

An El Paso County District Court judge ruled today that the Episcopal Diocese of Colorado and officials of Grace Church and St. Stephen’s Parish in Colorado Springs must resolve their $17 million property dispute at trial.

District Judge Larry E. Schwartz concluded, after reviewing six volumes of documents filed in the last year, that he cannot make a decision based solely on matters of law because “there is virtually no agreement as to the facts.”

Armstrong led a majority of parish — the largest in the Colorado diocese — into quitting the Episcopal Church and signing up with the Nigerian-led CANA. Of course, they claimed that they got to keep the church building and associated property when they left, regardless of the canon and constitution of the diocese.

While the judge allowed the parish’s contention that they had some status as an established non-profit organization, he denied several motions they had filed to dismiss the case.

No word yet on the criminal investigation (still ongoing) against Armstrong.

The civil trial is expected to start in early 2009.

More. Info.

 

Disappointing actions from Canterbury

As previously reported here, the Archbishop of Canterbury declined to invite the Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire to his decennial conference in Lambeth, as someone who has been a…

As previously reported here, the Archbishop of Canterbury declined to invite the Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire to his decennial conference in Lambeth, as someone who has been a lightning rod of contention within the greater Anglican Communion. He also declined to invite various (mostly conservative/schismatic) bishops (the actual list is, I believe, unknown) who have been been consecrated in an irregular fashion or by groups or in circumstances not recognized by the Archbishop..

That’s his prerogative, of course. Lambeth is supposed to be a consultative gathering, a chance for the bishops of the Communion to, well, commune at table together. At the time, the ABC hinted that there might be some other activities or interactions that Bp Robinson could participate in.

Now word comes that not only will Bp Robinson not be able to attend the conference formally, he will not be welcome to preach or celebrate at services while in England. The excuse seems to be that Robinson is too controversial, and that allowing him to do so would be tantamount to offering Official Approval of him.

Citing fears of creating a controversy, Rowan Williams, the Archbishop of Canterbury has refused to grant Bishop Gene Robinson of New Hampshire, the right to preach or preside at the eucharist in England. Robinson received the news in an email yesterday morning.

Sources familiar with the email say Williams cites the Windsor Report and recent statements from the Primates Meeting in refusing to grant Robinson permission to exercise his priestly functions during his current trip to England, or during the trip he plans during the Lambeth Conference in July and August.

[…] The email, which came to Robinson through a Lambeth official, says Williams believes that giving Robinson permission to preach and preside at the Eucharist would be construed as an acceptance of the ministry of a controversial figure within the Communion.

Of course, there are plenty of other controversial figures that the ABC has not similarly enjoined.

Williams has not denied permission to preach and preside to Archbishop Peter Akinola of Nigeria, who gave his support to a failed legislative attempt to limit the rights of Nigerian gays and their supporters to speak, assemble and worship God collectively. Akinola has yet to respond to an Atlantic magazine article which suggests he may have had prior knowledge of plans for retributive violence against Muslims in his country that resulted in the massacre of more than 650 people in Yelwa, Nigeria.

Williams has not denied permission to preach and preside to Bishop Bernard Malango, the retired primate of Central Africa and one of the authors of the Windsor Report. Malango dismissed without reason the ecclesiastical court convened to try pro-Mugabe Bishop Nolbert Kunonga for incitement to murder and other charges.

Williams has not denied permission to preach and preside to Bishop Gregory Venables, primate of the Southern Cone, who has now claimed as his own, churches in three others provinces in the Anglican Communion (Brazil, Canada and the United States). Nor has he denined permission to preach and preside to Archbishops Henry Orombi of Uganda, Emanuel Kolini of Rwanda, or Benjamin Nzimbi of Kenya, all of whom have ignored the Windsor Report’s plea not to claim churches within other provinces of the Communion.

 

The issue seems to be, though, that the ABC has decided that unity — of both the Communion and of his own Church of England — trumps other considerations. Though he does feel badly about it.

Sources who have read the email say Williams expresses sorrow for the way the ban on Robinson must appear to the bishop and his supporters, but says he is acting for the good of the Church and the Communion.

 

Abp Williams seems determined to not do anything that might give the conservative elements of the Global South an excuse to bolt the Communion — even as they proceed with plans and processes to do so. It’s disappointing that, someone who ought to be a spiritual leader, is simply fighting a pastoral holding action, seeking to avoid blame for the Communion’s break-up regardless of the cost to others — and in so doing, is probably accelerating that very outcome. By acting out of “fears” and upholding form and organizations over individuals, Abp Williams is not acting in what I would call a Christ-like fashion.

Disappointing.

Meanwhile, down in the Springs …

Mark Harris reports on the latest-greatest from Rev. Don Armstrong and his Grace CANA crew — including their novel new assertion that they really left the Episcopal Church back…

Mark Harris reports on the latest-greatest from Rev. Don Armstrong and his Grace CANA crew — including their novel new assertion that they really left the Episcopal Church back in 1973, so the Colorado diocese really-truly-ooly doesn’t have any claim to the Grace & St Stephens Church property.

A day late, but …

It’s an announcement right out of left field! Episcopal Church named “official denomination” of Major League Baseball: As a part of opening week festivities, Commissioner of Baseball Bud Selig…

It’s an announcement right out of left field! Episcopal Church named “official denomination” of Major League Baseball:

As a part of opening week festivities, Commissioner of Baseball Bud Selig and Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori announced today that the Episcopal Church has been designated the Official Denomination of Major League Baseball. The move was announced today in a teleconference with reporters.

[…] Selig said that Episcopalians bring the right mix of arcane tradition, an appreciation of minutiae and a tolerance for long stretches of relative inaction that make them “a good fit for us.”

“We believe that Episcopalians understand the nuances of the game and won’t meddle with our traditions too much.”

(Emphasis mine)

Plus, we have a fondness for seasonal activities and pretty uniforms!

(via Deb)

Grace & St Stephens, one year later

The police investigation into fraud is ongoing, both the Episcopal parish and the breakaway CANA one down in Colorado Springs are hanging in there, and Don Armstrong continues to…

The police investigation into fraud is ongoing, both the Episcopal parish and the breakaway CANA one down in Colorado Springs are hanging in there, and Don Armstrong continues to preach his gospel of love and kindness.

Because of the national body’s theological slide and vengefulness toward conservatives, Armstrong said, his group aligned with CANA – the Convocation of Anglicans in North America – the conservative North American missionary of the Anglican Church of Nigeria.

He said the allegations against him, and his subsequent defrocking by the U.S. church, came about because of his opposition to the church’s liberalism.

“It was clearly a witch hunt,” Armstrong said. “We are an enemy of the agenda of the national church and have been effective against them in the books we’ve written and the papers we’ve published. So to take us out sends a message to the rest of the clergy: ‘Do what you are told and keep your mouth shut.'”

 

[…] Armstrong said the few hundred Episcopalians who chose to leave his downtown parish a year ago have not affected Grace’s budget and ministry growth.

“We didn’t lose significant members,” Armstrong said. “We lost people who were troublemakers.

In his Feb. 17 fundraiser homily for Grace CANA’s legal defense fund, Armstrong compared Episcopal leaders to devil-possessed “pigs” whom he plans to run “over the cliff,” an allusion to a biblical parable in which Christ sends exorcised demons into a herd of swine.   

“We are naming the evil, not wishing ill will on anyone,” Armstrong said later.

 

After the party

It’s ironic that, the day after we had a very pleasant dinner party with several folks from our parish (the monthly “Hungry Flock” group who had to be postponed a…

It’s ironic that, the day after we had a very pleasant dinner party with several folks from our parish (the monthly “Hungry Flock” group who had to be postponed a week because of my illness), I read about another “dinner party” being stood up, as Abp Akinola of Nigeria explains to some Church of England evangelicals why his block of African provinces won’t be attending Lambeth.

Now, for those not in the Anglican/Episcopal Know, Lambeth isn’t just a business conference or something. It’s a three-week gathering of the bishops of the Anglican Communion, with their spouses, at the personal invitation of the Archbishop of Canterbury, to meet and pray and talk and, well, draw closer as a family. They talk and try to discern and teach, but the “legislation” bit is insubstantial (and a lot dodgier) than the fellowship aspect.  It’s a combination of a retreat and Thanksgiving — not a command performance or a congress, but a coming together. A communion, in many ways.

And Abp Akinola has made it clear that he and his don’t want to play any more — primarily, it seems, because Canterbury and most of the Anglican primates haven’t slapped down the Episcopal Church (or the Canadians, for that matter) for ordaining a gay bishop (excuse me, for ordaining an openly gay bishop). Indeed, there might be gay cooties in the air there.

They don’t feel they can sit at table with people with whom they disagree or even disapprove of. They see no value in it, and makes them uncomfortable. And, after all, it’s not like Jesus made a point of sitting at table with folks with whom he disagreed …

That’s okay, though. Sad, but okay. Hopefully it’s one of the final chapters in this long (but remarkably swift) breakup of the Anglican Communion. Abp Akinola can go on his way with his fellow “orthodox” and found whatever sort of organization they want. And the rest of us will simply get back to muddling along with, you know, important things. The bishops (those who want to go) can get together at Lambeth, hopefully resolve some differences (or learn to get along again), and the stuff the church should be spending time and attention on — feeding the poor, clothing the naked, comforting the afflicted, etc. — can be gotten back to.

Sometimes Thanksgiving is a bit easier, and a bit nicer, when the crazy, rude, racist, drunken uncle decides not to show up. A bit sad, but a bit of a relief.

Myth and Reality

Father Jake points to this report from a team of visitors from the UK, part of the Inclusive Church organization of the Church of England, and what they found as…

Father Jake points to this report from a team of visitors from the UK, part of the Inclusive Church organization of the Church of England, and what they found as they visited around in the Episcopal Church. It’s actually pretty encouraging, and worth reading (for those with any interest in the subject).

Contrary to popular perception the Episcopal Church is in good heart, and maintaining a significant position in the USA as a church which is both broad and welcoming; which covers a wide churchmanship with big differences of opinion and yet is determined to stay together. Given the sort of coverage the secessionist dioceses and parishes get in the UK, it’s a remarkable thing to learn that out of around 7,200 congregations across the country less than 100 have sought to leave. And out of around 110 domestic Dioceses, only 2 are likely to seek to secede. We’re talking very small numbers, less than 2%. Many of the other parishes which might previously have wanted to leave are now recognising that to be part of a greater whole is valid and important, and real efforts are being made to develop understanding between those of different positions.

It’s true to say however that there is widespread anger because of the way that the Episcopal Church has been perceived to be treated by the Primates and by senior members of the hierarchy in the UK and around the world. The position of welcoming lesbian and gay people is not some arbitrary piece of rights-based legalism; rather, it’s worked out from the profound desire that “the Episcopal Church welcomes you” and is rooted in an understanding of the Gospel and Baptism which seeks to turn no one away.

(Emphasis mine)

Hardly an unbiased source, of course, but given all the brouhaha, sometimes it’s also important to get some other pictures of “how others see us.”

Blogging categories

Unlike all the Cool Kids, I’ve never gotten down with using Tags for my blog entries.  I don’t trust myself enough to tag things consistently, frankly.  So I use categories…

Unlike all the Cool Kids, I’ve never gotten down with using Tags for my blog entries.  I don’t trust myself enough to tag things consistently, frankly.  So I use categories to group things together for those times I want to review a subject (vs. searching for individual posts).

I’ve added a bunch of new subcategories today for several categories that had grown unwieldingly large.  In most cases, these were categories I’d been pondering for a while, but which I finally got around to building.  I’ve done them as subcategories of the parent categories I’m trying to break up.

Now, in theory, I should go back through those parent categories and reassign things appropriately.  Alas, with over 12,000 entries, that’s a herculean job that I’m saving for when I have a week with nothing else to do.  Perhaps when retire …

So for the most part these categories are starting off as stubs that will build from this point, with possible backfilling if I reference back to an earlier post.  Let’s see how that works for now; in another 12,000 posts, nobody will remember the difference.

Sub-categories being added:

  • Blogging – Technical (to track posts about MT and technical issues with my blog, vs. other general Blogging subjects)
  • Family (broken out from Personal)
  • Health – Science (to distinguish from “I am down with the grippe” Health posts)
  • Media – Art (to make various reference to the Tate Modern, etc.)
  • Media – Sports (for the occasional obligatory sports post)
  • My Mobile / PDA (for stuff having to do with cell phones and PDAs and combos thereof)
  • Religion – Episcopal Church (broken out from the general Religion category)
  • Religion – My Parish (my local church activities)
  • Religion – Me (my own musings on the subject)

And I’m doing this post as much to note these changes as “starter” posts for those new subcategories than as anything I figure anyone would be interested in actually reading.  We now resume my regular blather, normally scheduled for this time.

But wait! There’s a sequel!

Evidently not satisfied with Bishop O’Neill’s letter of reprimand (a/k/a “Godly Admonition”) to Bonnie, or interested in giving the bishop time to complete his policy review on such matters, the…

Evidently not satisfied with Bishop O’Neill’s letter of reprimand (a/k/a “Godly Admonition”) to Bonnie, or interested in giving the bishop time to complete his policy review on such matters, the conservative clergy in Colorado are making threatening rumbles. demanding harsher action.

Conservative Episcopalians will ask Bishop Rob O’Neill to impose harsher sanctions against the Rev. Bonnie Spencer, an assistant pastor who participated in a same-sex ritual at Good Shepherd Church in Centennial.

In a letter sent to O’Neill last weekend, a conservative leader criticized the bishop’s handling of the matter, which was to impose a “godly admonition,” the lightest rebuke possible. In his decision, issued last week, O’Neill also authorized Spencer to take a six-week leave of absence.

The Rev. Don Armstrong, of Colorado Springs, warned in a letter to O’Neill that conservatives plan to demand that he consider defrocking Spencer and firing the church’s interim rector who approved the ritual.
“What Bonnie did . . . is clearly a same-sex blessing, and that must be stopped,” Armstrong said.

Now, given that the actual letter from Rev. Armstrong isn’t available, and given the through-a-word-processor-darkly nature of how previous letters from folks in this case have been somewhat mangled by the Rocky, I hate to draw too many conclusions here.

Still, it seems to me extraordinary that there be a demand to have Bonnie “defrocked” in this matter. And Rev. Armstrong would know as well as anyone else that our interim rector is actually hired by the parish, not the bishop; while I’m sure the bishop could, should he choose to do so, exert pressure on our parish to let Rev. Need go, I don’t believe he can actually “fire” her on our behalf.

I’m also not sure how this balances with Armstrong’s previous statement, in the Denver Post, apparently approving of the bishop’s actions (which had been communcated at that time): “”I think what he’s done is struck the right chord for the moment.”

I’ll wait until the apparently-leaked (if not CCed) letter to the bishop makes it online to make any further comment.

Why, yes, this is my church

I’ve been in the know on this for a couple of weeks, but didn’t blog about it here because — well, it’s likely to be getting all too much press…

I’ve been in the know on this for a couple of weeks, but didn’t blog about it here because — well, it’s likely to be getting all too much press and other coverage over the next weeks/months.

And to that end, I’ll decline to go into backstory of the sort that would be liable to end up being quoted somewhere in the press should this site be stumbled upon by someone. It’s not secret stuff, by any means, but in a brouhaha like this, stuff happens.

Same-sex event at church has conservatives seeking answers

Actually, plenty of folks seeking “answers” on this. But there are indeed some folks who are seeking answers they can use to further an end.

It wasn’t a same-sex blessing – but it was close enough that conservative Episcopalians are demanding to know from Bishop Rob O’Neill what happened last weekend at the Good Shepherd parish in Centennial.
A church official confirmed Thursday that the parish hosted a same-sex celebration in honor of Bonnie Spencer, an assistant pastor at the church, and her partner.
Spencer said she would have no comment until she spoke to O’Neill, who is out of town until next week. She added, however, that “there was no same-sex blessing.”

That is, in fact, in keeping with the information I have (and have every reason to believe). And saying that the “parish hosted” the celebration is perhaps overstating matters. The couple, and two witnesses each, were allowed use of the sanctuary on a Saturday, with the permission of the rector. No others were present.

The Rev. Lou Blanchard, who is the overseer of the region that includes the parish, said she was informed as “a matter of common courtesy” of the celebration.
“They had a party celebrating their relationship,” Blanchard said. Since she did not attend, Blanchard said she didn’t know what form the celebration took, or whether a spiritual ceremony was involved.

In point of fact, to avoid appearances of a formal church blessing, clergy were specifically instructed not to attend the event. Which, for something involving a priest, is greatly unfortunate.

Blanchard said that several months ago O’Neill denied the couple permission to perform a same-sex blessing. The bishop could not be reached for comment.
Same-sex blessings have been approved by the Episcopal Church USA, a move that has outraged conservatives in the denomination. While he supports same-sex issues, O’Neill promised conservatives he would not even consider moving ahead on developing such liturgies until after he had been in office six months. He took office in January.

Actually, the General Convention did not “approve” same-sex blessings, but acknowledged that they have been occuring, declined to condemn them, and continued to leave the matter as a “local option” to bishops while the church strives to reach consensus on the matter.

As a buzz began to build this week over what happened at Good Shepherd, a number of letters were sent to O’Neill asking exactly what happened at the 800-member parish, according to the Rev. Ephraim Radner, a writer, theologian and pastor of the Ascension parish in Pueblo.
“People are all wondering what’s going on,” Radner said.

Perhaps they should have asked the principles — Bonnie, or the parish rector, rather than just “wondering” aloud.

Speaking only as a parishioner, from my understanding of the events and the people involved, I don’t believe anything wrong or improper have occured — and, in fact, that this should be a time of joy and celebration for the couple involved. I suspect that some folk, however, will have a differing opinion, and that some will make it a fairly ugly mess.

And that’s probably all I should say at the moment, at least in this venue.